Stanley Thomas Jobling

2004 - 2008
LocationChessington
Age3 years
Cause of DeathMeningitis
Date of Birth21/11/2004
Date of Death27/01/2008
Visitors8,127 since 06/02/2008
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Stanley (Stan) Thomas Jobling was born on November 21st 2004.
Stan was a wonderful little boy, a Whirlwind who never stopped!!, always full of energy and willing
to try anything new. He was loved very much by his Mummy, Daddy and sister Scarlet, and thought the
world of by all who had the priviledge of knowing him.
Stan was my nephew, and the best friend in the world to my little boy Jude.
On Monday 14th January Stan was rushed to hospital with Meningitis, this developed into
Meningococcal septicemia and devastatingly, after a huge fight to get better, he passed away on
Sunday 27th January.


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MISS YOU EVERY DAY.XxXxX

No words I write can ever say
how much I miss you everyday.
As time goes by, the loneliness grows,
How I miss you, nobody knows.
I think of you in silence,
I often speak your name.
But all I have are memories,
And a photo in a frame.
No one sees me weep.
But the love I have for you,
Is in my heart, and mine to keep.
I have never stopped loving you
and I know I never will.
Deep inside my heart,
You are with me still.
Heartaches, this world are many,
But mine is worse than any.
My heart still aches, as I whisper low,
"I need you... and miss you so."
The things we feel so deeply
are often the hardest things to say.
But I just can't keep quiet anymore,
So I'll tell you any ways.
There is a place within my heart
that no one else can fill.
I love you and I always will!

Lynn Charmaine Duxfields Mum January 30, 2009

SWEET DREAMS BEAUTIFUL ANGEL.XxXxX

To lose someone you love is hard to bear
To lose your child it is beyond compare
Whether the child is a daughter or son
Each one of them is a precious one

Your children can never be replaced
Every one of them has their own special place
Your heart is heavy it feels like lead
You don’t want to believe your child is dead

You don’t think the pain will ever go away
No matter what other people may say
No one knows just what to say to you
You need their help to see you through

Life it seems so unfair
You wish your child could still be there
Your memories fill your heart and head
You remember all the things they said

Life is for living and you must go on
You pretend each day they have not gone
Until you meet them once again
You will learn to live through.

We little knew that morning,
God was going to call your name,
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.

It broke our hearts to lose you,
You did not go alone.
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.

You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.

Our family chain is broken,
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.

Lynn Charmaine Duxfields Mum January 29, 2009

Sorry ....

Hey little man sorry I never popped back yesterday, but Auntie Sarah had a really pants day!!!
Found myself thinking about u even before I woke ... although I guess really that yesterday was no different to any other ... think about u all the time, but on the 27th January last year, it was a sunday ... u spent ur last few hours on earth before u left :o(
I don't really know where u are but I have to believe there is something more, that from time to time u look in on Mummy, Daddy and Scarlet and that every now and then when Jude puts ur picture on the table so u can watch him play Ben 10 .... u really do see him :o)
Will think of u often Stanley Thomas Jobling and remember u always .... our love forever and a day xxxxx

Sarah Fisher (Aunt) January 28, 2009

For A Special Son

I once had someone special that money could not buy
I had a special son but I had to say goodbye,
If I was asked one question, why I thought the world of you
I could have a million answers and each one would be true
The heartache and the sadness may not always show,
People say it lessens but how little do they know,
Meet me in my dreams son and talk to me once more,
Ease the everlasting pain that makes my heart so sore,
The road without you is so long a tear for every mile,
But I know one day when I reach the end you'll be waiting with a smile.

Thinking of you on this sad day. Love from Liz Stuart Maxwell's mum x

Elizabeth Maxwell January 27, 2009

♥Together Forever♥

♥Together forever,♥
♥our whole lives through,♥
♥Every single day,♥
♥We think about you.♥

♥Your in our heart,♥
♥and in our prayer,♥
♥We knew one day,♥
♥We would have to share.♥

♥When God took your hand,♥
♥And broke our chain,♥
♥We will always know,♥
♥That we'll meet again.♥

Thinking of Stanley and his family on this sad day.Sweet Dreams Stanley.xXxXx My heart goes out to all family and frienda,as we lost our beautiful daughter Charmaine in Nov 06 to the same horrible illness.Love and Hugs To All.xXxXx

Lynn Charmaine Duxfields Mum January 27, 2009

gaurdian angel

god bless you. you was a handsome little man stanley. watch over your mummy, daddy and sister on this very sad day. my thoughts are with your family and friends, i know they are missing you dearly. sleep tight little one xx

Holly Louise January 27, 2009

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Our first Christmas without you ....

Hey Stan .... well it's Christmas day tomorrow and you have been in my thoughts more than usual .. I've been thinking about last year, about how you were soooo desperate for Diamond head that myself, along side Mummy, Daddy and a few others searched up and down surrey to find one for you!. Daddy came through and you were so happy with that little toy. I watched the video footage on my phone, the one where your playing with Diamond head, your talking to Laura and shouting "It's Christmas"!!!!! ... who would have thought that just one year later things would be so different. My thoughts are with Mummy, Daddy and Scarlet as always but more so rite now than ever,and it makes me unbearably sad that you won't be around to celebrate with us :o(
Just know that we are thinking of you, and missing you and hoping that you have the most wonderful, magical Christmas in the clouds ... we love you Stanley Thomas Jobling ... ALWAYS AND FOREVER XXXXX

Sarah Fisher (Aunt) December 24, 2008

Missing You, Child, at Christmas

Everybody's rushing round
Full of festive cheer
But I'm finding all I want to do
At Christmas, is come here.

To talk to you a little while
And light a candle or two
I can't buy you a present
So what else can I do?

Remember child, I love you
I'm still hurting with this pain
I don't think it will ever stop
Until I'm with you once again.

Rachel Bass. Josh December 13, 2008

hello stranger!

hello stanley!
just wanted to pop in and tell you that i still think of you often. everytime i see something ben ten i think of you :O)
i haven't been very good with the whole candle thing recently. u see there's so much going on again. sam's baby sister is very poorly too and life is just very hard, especially with the whole xmas thing coming up. im sure your mummy and daddy will be struggling with that too!
anyway, love to you and auntie sarah
caroline
Xxx

Caroline Sam'S Mummy (Friend) December 12, 2008
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