| Location | Chessington |
| Age | 3 years |
| Cause of Death | Meningitis |
| Date of Birth | 21/11/2004 |
| Date of Death | 27/01/2008 |
| Visitors | 8,127 since 06/02/2008 |
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Stanley (Stan) Thomas Jobling was born on November 21st 2004.
Stan was a wonderful little boy, a Whirlwind who never stopped!!, always full of energy and willing
to try anything new. He was loved very much by his Mummy, Daddy and sister Scarlet, and thought the
world of by all who had the priviledge of knowing him.
Stan was my nephew, and the best friend in the world to my little boy Jude.
On Monday 14th January Stan was rushed to hospital with Meningitis, this developed into
Meningococcal septicemia and devastatingly, after a huge fight to get better, he passed away on
Sunday 27th January.
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Few people come into our lives
and make everything shine,
but you're one of those
rare and splendid jewels
who makes the whole world bright.
When I am sad, you make me smile.
When I am alone and blue,
you are there for me,
and you make me feel strong enough
to accomplish anything.
Because I appreciate
the many things you do,
more than words can say,
I'm sending you the Candle of Love,
and hoping you receive
many blessings from above.
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Please send the candle of love to someone
who has touched your life, and keep the flame
of love burning bright.
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my dream
If I could have some fairy dust
To make my dreams come true
I`d take it with me in my sleep
So I could dream of you
I`d dream I were an angel
If only for one day
So I could be in Heaven
Just to spend the day with you
I`d tell you how I loved you so
And Missed you oh so much
And how just for a little while
You were mine but not to keep
I`d hold you oh so very close
But then I`d have to go
You see my little Angel
You were my gift but not to keep
I have to say night night now
Its time for me to go
But this feeling in my heart for you
Will never go to sleep.
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For Auntie Sarah
Stanley I made such a silly mistake yesterday and I have felt awful all night and day. I said Elis was a girl - how silly am I??? I hope I didnt offend Auntie Sarah. I have been worrying all night and day about it!
It was purley a typing and moment of madness!
love you anyway and your lovely family x
Hello
Hi Stan
Whilst I had the opportunity I thought I would say Hi! I havent been on the computer much and I dont get chance to come at work really. I havent chatted to the other angels in a while but between me and you I havent been that great. I hope you and Jamie are having fun, I bet you are causing havoc!
I saw some pictures of your best buddies Jake and Jude and the beautiful Elis I bet you miss them loads I know they miss you. Your Auntie Sarah is so lovely and misses you too, you are one very special feller!
Anyway Mr. I must go because I will get told off if I dont!
You have a lovely day
Pamela xxxxxxxxxxxxx
hello stan
i know this is going to be too long for a candle, or 2 or 3 even...
firstly, i have to say sorry for the lack of candles recently. im so tired and just haven't even had the energy to turn my computer on sometimes..
but just because i don't light candles doesn't mean i don't think of you...
how weird is this... and i do think it is rather strange that i should be dreaming of you! but last night, you were here stan. auntie sarah and i had met under different circumstances obviously, and somehow, i was baby sitting you. i took you to the newsagents. guess what we bought stan?
a ben 10 sticker album and tons of stickers. how cool. if only hey
hope i haven't bored you, i just wanted you to know. u r a very special lil man, and im sure one i will get to meet you
till then,
lots of love
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No matter what
Evening Stan, I've just come by to share a snippet from Jude's new story book,
No matter what
'Does love wear out,' said Small, 'does it break or bend? can you fix it, stick it, does it mend?'
'Oh help' said Large, 'I'm not that clever, I just know I'll love you forever.'
Small said 'But what about when we're dead and gone, would you love me then, does love go on?'
Large held Small snug and tight as they looked out at the night, at the moon in the dark and the stars shining bright. 'Small, look at the stars ~ how they shine and glow, but some of those stars died a long time ago.'
'Still they shine in the evening skies, love, like starlight, NEVER dies'.
Did you here that Stanley Thomas Jobling? Love never dies, our love for you will go on and on!!!!!
I think I will share this with a few other special Angels, I hope they like it as much as I'm sure you did :o)
Special kisses ............. XXXXX .... and all the love.
I will send you for a little while
Re read your eulogy today Stan and your order of service sheet, I'd always thought that the Poem read by Gregory on the day of your funeral was beautiful .... in a strange way, but never imagined it would be used for such a day as it was :o(
'I'll lend to you, for a little while, a child of mine,' God said,
'For you to love, while he lives, and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three,
but will you, 'til I call him back, take care of him for me?.
He'll bring his charms to gladden you, and should his stay be brief, you'll have his many memories as a comfort to your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay, since all from Earth return,
but there are lessons taught below I want this child to learn.
I've looked the whole world over in my search for teachers true, and from the people that crowd life's lane, I have chosen you.
Now, will you give him all your love, not think the labor vain, nor hate me when I come to take this lent child back again?.
I fancied that I heard them say 'Dear Lord thy will be done', for all the joy this child will bring, the risk of grief we'll run.
But should the Angels come for him much sooner than we planned, we'll brave the bitter grief, and try to understand......'
Although it's beautiful I don't Stanley, I don't understand ...
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Stoney meadow ....
Hello, hello, hello little Stanley Jobling ..... stoney meadow, that's what your name means! ... but Caroline's rite you were brave, strong and enough to make anyone smile. I don't think you ever knew but when you were in Mummy's tummy Mummy and Daddy quite liked the name Jude too. Myself, Mummy and Auntie Sammy were all pregnant at the same time ..... oh that was a shock for Nanny! :o). Well my Jude came first, then you Stanley about 9 weeks later, and finally the little princess Abi 3 months after you, the 3 muskateers! :o).... there will always be a space missing, it will never be filled, NOT EVER.
About smiling ...... that's not something your cousin has been helping me do much of lately .... my goodness Stan he can be such a pickle. He won't leave Elis alone for a second, picking him up and dragging him everywhere! :o/ ...... he really is a little too rough with him. Sometimes, on days like today when Rufus is driving me to distraction (as loopy as a cheerio!) I'm sure to think of you and that remind's me how lucky I am to have him here, driving me nuts or not! :o) .... please give him a little nudge when he isnt looking! :o)
I should go now, it's very late cheeky, I must remember to ask Mummy to add some new pictures soon.
Night night now, dream good dreams, love from us all and 5 very special kisses too xxxxx
Well stan, I know this is gonna be long for a candle....
well you know my news... I have been thinking what a cool name stan is. I thought "yes, that is a cool name", one that perhaps I could use. Of course I would always think of you too. I don't know what the name means, but to me your name must mean brave, strong and a person who brings a lot of laughter. Anyway Im not allowed :O( I didn't realise that there was a famous football player called Stanley Matthews, Sam's daddy doesn't think that would be very cool. We'll see ;O)
Sorry for waffling but I wanted you to know
lots of love
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Don't Worry Mommy
Mommy please don't be sad,
I miss you so much too.
It's beautiful here,
but I worry a lot about you.
I sleep with angels watching me...
there is only love up here.
I am never lonely or afraid
because God is so very near.
I walk with Jesus every day,
He is very kind and loving.
Don't worry Mom, He holds my hand
when we cross a golden street.
I never cry or hurt myself.
I see Grandpa every day.
I play and laugh and sing a lot
and I hear you when you pray.
Please Mommy, don't be mad at God,
you see He loves me too.
And even though you are not with me,
I am really still with you.
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