| Location | Chessington |
| Age | 3 years |
| Cause of Death | Meningitis |
| Date of Birth | 21/11/2004 |
| Date of Death | 27/01/2008 |
| Visitors | 8,127 since 06/02/2008 |
| Creator |
Stanley (Stan) Thomas Jobling was born on November 21st 2004.
Stan was a wonderful little boy, a Whirlwind who never stopped!!, always full of energy and willing
to try anything new. He was loved very much by his Mummy, Daddy and sister Scarlet, and thought the
world of by all who had the priviledge of knowing him.
Stan was my nephew, and the best friend in the world to my little boy Jude.
On Monday 14th January Stan was rushed to hospital with Meningitis, this developed into
Meningococcal septicemia and devastatingly, after a huge fight to get better, he passed away on
Sunday 27th January.
thankyou for everything
'''♥one day u feel like crying♥....♥call me♥. ♥I dont promise that i will make u laugh♥, ♥but i can cry with u♥. ♥If one day u want to run away♥-- ♥dont be afraid to call me♥. ♥I dont promise to ask u to stop♥......♥but i can run with u♥. ♥If one day u dont want to listen to anyone♥.....♥call me♥. ♥I promise to be there for u but also promise to remain quiet♥. ♥But one day if u call♥......♥and there is no anwser♥.....♥come fast to see me♥. ♥Perhaps i need you♥. ♥Send this to all your friends, no matter how often you talk♥, ♥or how close you are♥, ♥and send it to the person who sent it to you♥. ♥Let old friends know you haven't forgotten them, and tell new friends you never will♥. ♥Remember♥, ♥everyone needs a friend♥, ♥'
Mornin stan, have a lovely day 2day lil man wiv amy all ur friends, im goin away 2day sweetie so i wont be able 2 light ur candles till i get bck so i send u 10 kisses 4 every day im away XXXXX MWAH XXXXX, sendin my luv 2 u n ur family as alwayz xx
Mornin sarah, thank u so much 4 all ur support, i no my candles havent been very regular recently but im goin away 2day n ive been so busy gettin everythin ready, il get my candles bck 2 normal wen i get bck, u n stan are alwayz in my thoughts, thanx agen 4 all ur support, it really means a lot, sendin my luv 2 u n ur family as alwayz xx
Always on my mind
Morning Stanley Jobling, yes it is VERY early .... 5 am I think, lets just say Uncle Dan is in BIG BIG trouble!. I tried to light your candle last night before bed but my silly computer was messing about again and the Angel Mummy's who usually help me out when I'm in a pickle must have been visiting the land of nod :o)
Jake had his football presentation last night, Oh Stan I was so proud, he did so well ... he was voted manager's player and got a great big trophy :o) ... another one to find some space for.... I wonder would you have liked football eventually? :o(
Oh how things could be now, should be now ... almost 5 months since you left and it still seems so unreal. Your always on my mind, I miss your cheeky face, watching you play with Jude ....you loved each other so much, 9 weeks separated you in age you were like 2 peas in a pod..... ben 10 days, how I remember those :o) and miss them too :o( . Our live's will never be the same again without you, forever is such a long time Stan but that's how long you will be missed. I should go now because I'm making myself sadder than I was already .... love you cheeky, 5 special kisses coming your way ......... xxxxx
stay with me angel
stay with me my angel
i need you now and again
stay with me my angel
you know your my only friend
stay with me my angel
i need your light to live
stay with me my angel
your the only one to forgive
stay with me my angel
to take the pains away
stay with me my angel
in bed is where i pray
dont go away my angel
i need you oh so much
dont go away my angel
i need a gentel touch
dont go away my angel
please take the sins away
dont go away my angel
i cannot last another day
dont go away my angel
i dont want another tear
dont go away my angel
take away all i have to fear.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hi i would just like to say a big thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your surport and the lovley candels you have left for my joshua they mean so much to me thank you also i know latley ive missed quiet a few candels on your site and im sorry its just joshua 2nd anaversarey is coming up friday and i have found it really hard coming on gts thank you leanne
Be Happy for my Sake
Many days have passed now
Since I left your world behind
From so far away I watch you
As you hold me dear inside.
I know how much you miss me
Because I miss you in return
Although you know I’m happy
In your eyes the tears still burn.
I try to give you comfort
From heaven when I pray
The only wish I have
Is that I could take your pain away.
Please know how much I love you
That I am always by your side
You see, I have a purpose here
So open your heart wide.
I want to watch the good things
That will happen in your life
I can’t stand to see you sit there
And repeatedly ask why….
There is nothing that you did wrong
And there is nothing you didn’t say
I know your thoughts and worries
As I walk with you each day.
If you listen really closely
You can hear the words I say to you
You see, I still share my secrets
I tell you everything I do.
I stay strong because I love you
And because I know the day will come
When we’re allowed to be together,
We’ll walk hand in hand into the sun….
dear sarah
hello my dear friend, what can I say
except thankyou for being there for me today
and for being there yesterday and tomorrow too
my heart would really like to thank you
you mean so very much to me and mine
as we sit at the computer passing time
lighting candles and sending verses to all
who have lost their love one to gods call
we all feel the same as we all do know
how much we all love and miss them so
Our own special angels who our sites are for
keeping their memory alive is what we are here for
the candles pictures and verses you send
in some way helps our hearts to mend
just a little bit enough to help us to live without
our angel beside us who we miss without doubt
so once again my dear friend on the net
you help me enourmously even though we have never met
maybe one day when my heart is not so blue
i will be able to visit and talk with you
we can share how we feel and how we all cope
for now though i will settle for you giving me hope
that things will become much easier to bear
with our own angels pages on the web that we share
thank you so much my dear friend for being there
to listen when i babble and cry in despair
you always let me get on with my disbelief
even though you are suffering with your own grief
so I thank you again from the bottom of my heart
for being there for me when my life falls apart
and pulling me back to my feet when i fall
i would like to say my dear friends, i thank you all.
love caroline xx
Would you have ......?
Hello Cheeky it's been a while but I was sat in the garden after dinner and all of a sudden you came to mind...... I don't even realise that I get to thinking about you, it just seems to happen!.
Well it's been more than four months now since you left ..... I wonder would you have grown much?, would you have changed at all?, would you have mastered the art of S's??? .... It make me sad to face up to the fact that I'll never know :o(
Jude still misses you so much..... I'm back at work now as you know and he said to me the other day 'Mummy if Stan was still here with us Auntie Tracy could take me to Stan's house to play on one of the days that you work, I wish he was still here' :o( ....... so do I Stanley Jobling, so do I.
I havn't seen Mummy for a while, or Daddy for such a long time so can you pass on my love to them please.
Just wanted you to know that we are still thinking of you, and loving you and missing you just the same.
All our love we send to you and 5 extra special wonderful kisses too xxxxx
Words, however kind,
can't mend your heartache:
but those who care and
share your loss wish you
comfort and peace of mind.
May you find strength
in the love of family
and in the warm embrace
of friends.
xxxx
all my love stacey xx
princess and superheroes
Hello Stan,
Sienna asked me if she was going to heaven to be with you as she has the chicken 'pops', I had to explain that although she couldn't go to heaven to be with you- we can think of you all the time- she is a little envious of your wings my angel! Do you remember that you missed her 'princess and superhero party' when you had chicken pox, and we were so looking forward to seeing you in your red ranger costume, although i have since seen you in the picture on your site and mummy assures me you looked great when you wore it on halloween!
You are every inch the Superhero!
Love Dx
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